Tak baik buat begitu tau...

Hai semua. Malam ni nak turn on mode Cik Joyah. So nak tukar kejap nama jadi Cik Joyah, boleh? Macam over la pulak kan...hihi. Tapi adalah terasa macam nak bergossip sikit..sikit je tau uolsss..Bukan nak mengata atau membuka aib seseorang..tapi benda ni berlaku ye dik non...Walaupun terkena tempias, tapi memang sentap hati mak nak...

Sometimes I feel like the world is getting more weird every each day. So many unthinkable and unexpected things happened, like every day I guess. Okay, malas nak bagi intro panjang lebar. Sat gi merapu plak kang.Let just straight to the point. Adalah perempuan ni, I malas tau nak describe her lebih-lebih..Tapi jenis yang kalau dah suka kat laki tu, kalau dah aim kat laki tu, tak kira boyfriend orang ke, suami orang ke....dia sapu!!!!! Bukan hanya sekali buat macam ni. Lebih dari sekali. Pernah jumpa tak spesies macam ni? Pernah tak? Pernah tak?

Kadang-kadang I kesian tau kat perempuan yang macam ni. Like tak de ke laki lain selain suami orang dan bapa orang? Dah desperate sangat ke? Dan laki tu sudah pangkat bapak dah dengan hang. Sedaq la diri tu. Berdosa tau meruntuhkan rumah tangga orang lagi-lagi yang dah 25 years of marriage. Yang si suami pun satu. Dok pi layan tu buat apa. Kalau niat adalah ikhlas, takkan sorokkan mistress anda tu. See...geram ni.

Tapi yang cheq pelik kan...Ada je laki yang syok kat perempuan yang cheq maksudkan tersebut..tapi sebab laki tu poket agak kurang mungkin, perempuan tu tak layan..Tula masalahnya perempuan sekarang ni. Memanglah duit tu penting, tapi janganlah sampai runtuhkan one happy family. Kau pakai guna-guna ke ape? Tett!!

Kadang-kadang terfikir kenapa la kan sesetengah perempuan pandang poket laki then tak kira la laki tu dah berkeluarga ke apa...Dia ngurat jugak. Tak mananya laki tu akan tersangkut kalau tak digoda kan? Kalau takda angin takkan pokok boleh bergoyang? Kan?

Yelah...I admit that memang duit tu penting. Tapi duit takleh dibawa masuk dalam kubur. Ke hang nak pakai make-up M.A.C masa kapan? Astaghfirullah. Cheq ingat lagi masa mula-mula couple dengan boipren cheq. Kami susah sama-sama. Maklumlah..masing-masing belajar. Dan bila dah kerja pun, kami masih merangkak-rangkak dan bersusah payah sama-sama. Yang penting sama-sama berdoa untuk our relationship. Boipren cheq bukan ada duit kepuk-kepuk. Tapi bukan itu yang buat cheq suka dia. Cheq suka dia sebab diri dia yang sentiasa berusaha dan sangat family man. Hai...tak nak la cite pasal boipren cheq pulak. Melalut dah ni.

Sambung balik. Well...Janganlah sebabkan duit, kita ni sebagai kaum perempuan sanggup nak robohkan rumah tangga orang. Kalau dah tau dan dah memang terang lagi bersuluh laki tu dah berkeluarga hang tetap goda dia dan jalinkan hubungan sulit, kenapa..Think about it. Yelah kan...hang dah pernah pun jumpa wife dia semua, anak-anak dia....kalau benda ni jadi kat ayah hang macam mana? Apa perasaan hang? Apa perasaan mak hang? Macam tu la perasaan si isteri dan anak-anak tu.

Kalau lelaki yang syok kat hang tu duit ala-ala semput, bagilah peluang kat laki tu. Dia mungkin lebih ikhlas dari laki-laki yang lain. Janganlah asyik pandang rendah kat laki yang macam tu. Bukan nak sebelahkan mana-mana pihak. Tapi just nak buka sikit mind kawan cheq yang sorang tu. Bila kita bagi peluang kat laki yang ikhlas suka kat kita, dia mesti akan berusaha nak majukan diri dia. Dan kita cuma perlu bagi semangat dan support dia. Kan sweet realtionship yang susah sama-sama, senang sama-sama. Takkan nak sentiasa senang je? Bukan life namanya kalau sentiasa senang. Kalau hidup sebab duit, sampai bila? La ni hang dah buat auntie tu suffer, hang tak rasa bersalah ke? Sudah-sudah la...Kalau betul hang ikhlas, hang bersemuka dengan je wife laki tu. Ni tak..bila nak jumpa, hang takut. Pastu sorok-sorok.. Apa benda tu?? Haih~ Geram tau..rasa nak cekik je perempuan tu and cakap "Ko boleh tak berhenti kacau rumah tangga orang????"

Just remember that life is like a wheel. Esok lusa kalau terkena kat keluarga hang, baru hang tau langit ni tinggi ke rendah. Ok then. Cakap banyak tak guna. Jom tido!!!

Hugs and kisses,

A Hectic Weekend Getaway

Okay...adalah telah mengambil masa yang agak lama untuk mengupdate entry yang baru. Sebelum saya merapu...nak say Welcome to Cik Minah dan extended gratitude to you Cik Minah sebab at last ada juga yang bersependapat dengan saya tentang ketidakgemaran dan ketidaksukaan terhadap gaya fesyen bertudung sekarang yang konon-konon bak ala H**a Ta*ji** tu. Nyampah uollsss.. Serabut. Well tapi terserah pada anda. Kalau anda suka, dan rasa sangat cool dan comel yang melampau bila pakai fesyen macam tu, teruskan. Tak salah. Saya bukan Tuhan nak jatuhkan apa-apa hukum. Bak kata pepatah...rambut sama hitam tapi hati kan lain-lain. LAin orang, lain pendapatnnya. No offense.

Berbalik pada topik yang tak berapa nak hot ni...Al-kisah Ahad 2 minggu lepas, Encik Boify telah ajak keluar berdating. Adalah sangat jarang beliau ajak dating. Maklumlah...dah sama-sama busy. Nak update blog pun takde masa, apatah lagi nak berjumpa....So it was our hectic getaway to Bukit Tinggi.

That place has a nice view. Sesuai untuk spend time dengan family dan orang tersayang. Ok. Cakap banyak tak guna. Just nak share some piccas.

Very beautiful view.

Thanks Mr. Photographer

Ok. Dah sengal.

Okay then. Continue later. See ya.

Hugs and kisses,

16th May 2011

People often might think that teaching is as easy as a piece of cake. I was once had a mindset like that too. Well if you really do think like that, your mindsets and perceptions are wrong. Days pasts and being involved in this professions had made me realized that teaching is actually a one tough job.A professions that involves long hours, much stress and hopefully much satisfactions. People expect a teacher to be always in the classroom guiding the children to become worthwhile citizens while setting a good example for them. As a teacher, I must be very careful to avoid displaying a misdemeanor lest I will be branded as not behaving like a teacher. The word teacher tells me a lot about behaving well and being a model to people especially to the young people whom a I teach. I have to teach from the heart, not from the book.

As teaching the early level of kids, I think that dealing with the clients are the most stressing part for me. Parents always seeking for the perfections but sometimes they don't really co-operate and rely on the teacher 100%. The delegations of tasks will be more difficult when I have to do the filing thingy, the documentation thingy and at the same time I have to maintain my performance in my core business, which is teaching. Well, not to mention about cleaning the kids when they wet their pants. Sometimes I had to extand my working hours just to make sure that I always keep on track. But I take that as my worthwhile and amazing experiences ever.

However, everything - I mean the stressfulness, the patience, the hard work, the tiredness - seems faded away when my kids, my students appreciate me. I received flowers, cards, drawings and small presents everyday. Actually all the things are not that important. What I need is just a sincere, simple thank you to show their appreciations towards me. 

Me with one of my pupils during the Action Songs competition. I love you.

And today is the day. The day which I called it "Appreciation Day". To all my students, I love you more than you can imagine. Sorry for being "HULK" sometimes in the class. I just want you to know that I love you all every now and then. Nothing can make me happy except your good and outstanding achivements. I will always pray for your happiness and success. And please don't forget me, the one that taught you to know A,B,C until Z and the one who taught you to write your own name on the paper. May Allah  bestows you with happiness and success in your life. May you guys be a good doctor, a good lawyer, a good accountant, a good architect in the future. I am nothing without my students who always make my day.

And to all my friends and teachers out there, I wish all of you a very Happy Teacher's Day. Guru Penjana Transformasi Pendidikan Negara. God bless, InsyaAllah.

Assalamualaikum.

Hugs and kisses,

Entry Hutang - Part 1

Okay, I know a million of you had been missing me since I was away for about 3 weeks. And I know I just couldn't keep on saying sorry as I might be away again and again. Well let's start with my very first part of Entry hutang. Hukhuk~

Date: 29th April 2011

Location: Stadium Putra Bukit Jalil

I rushed myself straight to Subang right after school and get ready for the Epic. Yeeha!!! Well, let just make this entry short. I didn't drive to Bukit Jalil because I know I couldn't tahan maa stuck in the jam and looking for the parking. So I parked my baby somewhere at Subang (well of course at a safe place laaa) and catched up the train to Bukit Jalil.

As I arrived there, the M5 t-shirts were all over!!! Okay, I admit that I was over excited as that was my very first time watching a live concert. Ala-ala jakun la Cik Limah oiii...But had to cover it in front of my Mr. Right. Oppss.. kantoi di situ. Well I was quite shocked with the extra long line. Sebab baik kan, I asked Mr. Right to queue. Tak baik bukan potong barisan. Siap sempat solat bagai. Fuhh~ Memang panjang gila. Then suddenlly idea gila Mr. Right datang. "B, why don't we just selit-selit je?" Dang~ Nice idea. Then I told him to pretend to take some photos here and there and then just zass! Selit and then call me. He said . Okay. Yay!

Dapat selit sangat depan, okay? Jealous tak? Well sila jangan jealous sebab cerita belum tamat lagi. Sampai je kat depan the guard tu cakap, camera SLR tak boleh bawak masuk. Only compact cam je. So we had to go back to his car which is so far away, put the camera and ran back to the stadium. Again, dapat selit. Yes!! Sempat! And we were standing quite in the front row.

Well overall, they're rock!! Rasa macam 2 jam menonton tak cukup. We want more and more. And watching one of my favourite band performing less than 50 meters from me was a very amazing experience! I enjoyed all the songs that they performed that night. Thanks to Mr. Right for the extremely superb date! Want the review of the concert? Well I guess no need, just watch it on Youtube. Time for piccas!!!

Look at the people!!

Nice. Credit to my Mr. Right.

Camwhoring..lalalala~

Agak-agaknya ada tak Bloggers terselit dalam gambar ni?

The concert was an EPIC.

Hugs and kisses,

Home is the best!!

Okay..My location: Home sweet home, Merlimau, Melaka. Happy gila babs dapat balik. Sampai lupa nak update blog. By the way, saya ada banyak cerita nak di share, from Maroon 5 concert to jalan kaki dalam bandar Melaka di tengah mala..Adalah satu kerja yang agak gila di situ...Okay then nak kemas barang..nak balik....Nanti kita sambung lagi.....Muah! Muah!

Interesting thing!

Okay...this thing is so amazingly incredible.  Take a look at this:

Macaroons!!!!!!

It's macaroon!!!! Looks scrumptious and yummy isn't it?
But hey, believe it or not, this is soap! Yes baby, SOAP!!!
I thought it's cute. Boleh buat hantaran kan? Or maybe door gift to VIP. Lain dari yang lain.
You can browse for various soap design HERE.

Hugs and kisses,

Syhhhh..malaikat lalu.

Have you ever encountered with a sudden silence when everybody is busy chatting here and there?

Of course pernah kan? Well...dulu masa kat sekolah dulu especially when the teachers were not in the class, murid akan ya ampun..bising bangat deh!

Tengah masing-masing duk syok berbual kosong, suddenly class jadi senyap. Sunyi sepi untuk 5saat. Bila abes je 5 saat, ada la makhluk yang akan speak out : Malaikat lalu wei...nak tumpang pergi syurga.

Ya Allah. Ampun. Kalaulah begitu mudah untuk ke syurga, mesti tak kan ada cabaran pancaroba duniawi. Just tunggu malaikat lalu dan tumpang terus ke heaven. Tak perlu bersih dan sucikan hati, top up ibadat...jalan short cut ke syurga. Boleh ke macam tu? Dah tentu-tentu tak boleh.

So friends, jangan main-main dengan dosa pahala, syurga dan neraka. Well, aku bukanlah alim ulama' nak bagi ceramah agama kat sini, tapi sebagai seorang Islam, apalah salahnya memberi peringatan untuk diri sendiri dan orang lain.

Kalau kita tengok sekarang ni, macam-macam dah jadi..Perkara yang sangat terang lagi bersuluh.

Pasangan XY dan XY..

Pasangan XX dan XX.

Astaghfirullah..apa nak jadi dengan dunia sekarang ni? Dahla lelaki makin pupus, nafsu pun dah songsang. Macam mana? Terpaksalah si perempuan bertukar jantina semata nak memikat gadis yang masih solo, kepingin seorang "lelaki". Sebab aku tak tahu apa yang mendorong mereka jadi macam ni, aku tak nak cakap banyak. Sat gi kena pukui dengan peng baru hang tau. Tapi cerita cinta songsang ni memang dah banyak. Korang..tak takut ke Allah turunkan bala macam kaum Nabi Luth? Na'uzubillah..mintaklah dijauhkan.

Gambar sekadar hiasan...

Yang dengan dah bertukar jantina nye....Yang XX dah jadi XY, XY dah jadi XX......Yang ni pun dah jadi petunjuk akhir zaman....

Dengan gaya bertudung yang dah macam seakan-akan meniru gaya seorang sister. Yang gambar bawah ni pun sama..konon-konon ala Hana Tajima. Siapa tu? Dah macam rahib la pulak. Plus, lemas aku tengok..macam nak tarik-tarik je tudung tu. Konon-konon cantik la tu...Celah mana ntah cantiknye...

Gambar sekadar hiasan

Dan macam-macam lagi hal...Korang..dah nak akhir zaman ni. Macam-macam dah Allah turunkan petunjuk. Tak takut ke? Jomla kita banyakkan pahala. Peringatan untuk diri sendiri juga yang dalam perjalanan mencari sinar cahaya dan hidayah.

So, jangan la tunggu malaikat lalu pastu korang nak tumpang. Okay?

Sayang korang!

Hugs and kisses,


*Pictures courtesy from Google*

I'm not talking about boyfriend, I'm talking about soul mate.

I still remember the first time we went out for a date officially as a couple, you know as a boyfriend and a  girlfriend. It was sweet. So damn sweet. And of course, I'm the happiest girl in the world! You guys just don't know how much I wanted him to be my boyfriend ever since I was at high school. All I could think is him as my boyfriend.

Well now, time flies and everything is change. Ups and downs we went through together makes me think feel like I wasn't looking for a boyfriend actually, I am looking for a soul mate. So there he is. Standing there, waiting to catch me if I fall and always be there to listen to me, offer his shoulder for me to cry on. And of course to take care and look for me.

As a girl who always often being surrounded by the jitters and emotional feelings, things will get a little bit under control sometimes. So I am really concern about this. Furthermore, I don't have that confidence like you had. So I really need a guidance to avoid me from taking the irrational actions. Which you know, kinda hard sometimes. And living away from my parents will just make my life more miserable. Duh~

So my point is, I'd found my soul mate. Those three words are more meaningful as our relationship grew stronger. And thanks my dear. I'd promised not to leave you and trust me, I keep my words. And believe me sayang, dreams do come true. Like you said, rezeki is everywhere. Let's just pray everything will be just fine.

Oh, by the way, did you already tell your parents about your intention? Or you still need a script? =p

Hugs and kisses,

How to propose a girl woman marriage?

The topic? Adoi! I'm not trying to give the guys out there any tips lor. Sila jangan salah faham. Cuma...Okay. I write about this situation for an example.

The guy asked the girl that he loves so much for an answer of a question.

The guy : You..macam mana ni? 

The girl : Macam mana ape?

The guy : Macam mana nak cakap dekat abah I suruh pinang you? 

The girl : Err...*soalan apakah ini?* Ermm...you cakap la dengan abah you.

The guy : Cakap macam ni ke : Abah..boleh tak tolong pinangkan **** untuk abah? 

The girl : Eh, you nak I jadi mak tiri you ke??? *sempat lagi kan bergurau mamat ni..huhuhuhu..

The guy : Eh, salah la...*sambil tersenyum comel*. Erm...you tolong la tuliskan kat atas kertas apa yang I kena  cakap dekat abah i..

The girl : Errr....*blurr...apakah?

Perlu ade script ke? Okay. Memang aku blur...Macam mane? *Pang diri sendiri laju-laju

the cake

The first time I became a teacher, I thought of teaching and paycheck. But as time goes by, I realized that paycheck is not as important as my students. I devoted my life to teaching.

The bonding and relationship between me and my kids becomes closer and closer every each day. I could sense that. Bila kita ikhlas, mesti kita enjoy bekerja. Right?

And I received so many things from them. From letter saying thank you, to the cutest pencils ever..let alone the cutest drawings and scribbles they gave me. And one thing that makes me want to cry and never forget is the cake. 

Terima Kasih Cikgu (Thank You Teacher)

And it happened last Monday. Thank you to you too my dear Hannah for the cake. It's so lovely. Teacher loves it so much!

Good night peeps.

Hugs and kisses,